I used to have an acquaintance who said above line to me few years back. I thought he was arrogant then, didn’t like mixing with people! After so long, I realize that I am wrong and naive in thinking of him as such after I came across this TED talk:
In a culture where being social and outgoing are prized above all else, it can be difficult, even shameful, to be an introvert. But, as Susan Cain argues in this passionate talk, introverts bring extraordinary talents and abilities to the world, and should be encouraged and celebrated.
Our world prizes extroverts — but Susan Cain makes a case for the quiet and contemplative
So, get the message from her? She claimed that Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings by being alone! When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Great people like Chopin, Gandhi and even Steve Wozniak (Apple co-founder) were some of the famous introverts living among us.
One of Susan’s take home messages was “Stop the madness of constant groupwork, just stop it”! I cannot agree more with her as sometimes I did feel the pain in the axx to sit down with total strangers to brainstorm ideas in many of the workshops!
Last but not least, be aware that Introverts make up about 60% of the gifted population but only about 25-40% of the general population.
So, don’t feel offensed if your friend or colleague turns down your lunch or dinner invitation next time!
***Talkkok does enjoy his own private moments but dislike having lunch or dinner alone, if possible***
